By default, when opening an HRMP channel, the number of pending messages that can be queued on the relay chain for the channel is the one defined in the active host configuration (`HostConfiguration::hrmp_channel_max_capacity`).

The current value is 1000 and this referenda proposes to reduce it to 20.

A sending parachain can push at most 1 HRMP message to the relay chain per block while the receiving parachain processes all the pending messages at once. When the limit of pending messages is reached, the sending parachain can't forward any more HRMP message to the relay chain, having to queue them locally. The local queue also has a backpressure mechanism. Even if the receiving parachain has a delay of a couple of blocks in processing the pending messages, 20 pending messages should be enough for everything to work smoothly. 

And if we're in a corner case where the receiving parachain is stalled, it's best to not have a lot of pending HRMP messages on the relay chain, since this will increase the load on the receiving parachain when it recovers.

#1738 [Whitelisted Caller] Reduce the number of pending messages allowed in an HRMP channel at once